Day 9 - White knuckle - Just breathe - It's a dance

[artsygirl]

So, this one is short and sweet. Life is not always easy & today has been a tough day.
Instead of complaining & crying I will post a gratitude list:

I am grateful for...

My super cool kitty, Bella. She is really sweet today.
My blue eyes.
My electric fleece blanket even though it is a slow killer with this EMF business. Oh well, I am nice and warm.
Cacao smoothies. Nuf said.
Raw Fu people. Y'all are so great and excepting even when I get the crazies.
Jazz apples. Holy crap these are awesome.
Living in Seattle even though I desperately miss Oxford town.

Ok, so here is something that is super creepy & I want you ladies to give me some feedback. So Kevin's BEST friend called to ask me out like - I don't know - five minutes after Kevin & I broke up. Seriously!?!?! Ew. I mean, I thought he was cool til he did that. That is so gross. Um, I love your best friend, we just have a terrible, painful fight & break up & you wanna buy me a microbrew? Yuck.

Ok, sometimes people really shock the mess out of me. Anyway, hope your day is better. I gotta go channel Aretha.

Love~

[artsygirl]

I guess it's flattering. I am just not interested right now. :/

[Jonathan]

I am an old guy ok. That is indeed super creepy. Read, watch movies, talk to trusted friends, and be cautious.

[Cece]

That happened to me, years ago, and the best friend was married. As though I was so desperate that I would accept as temporary consolation a man who belonged to another. Not then or ever! I was so insulted.

Asking you out out so quickly is crude. If he was just being nice, a friend, now that's a horse of a different color. But it sounds to me as though he was asking you out out.

[artsygirl]

and i quote:

well, since you have broken up, i could ask you out?
i am attempting to be funny yet honest...

anyway, this is coming from a 42 year old man.
seriously. yeah, i think it belongs in the crude category. i mean, i feel like vultures are attacking me.

[artsygirl]

and don't even get me started on married guys. that's why i will never take a job where i travel and stay in hotels again. so many married guys cheating while away. not all of them but enough to really bother me.

[Gypsy Mama ( Michelle)]

I think you are just adorable! You will make the right decision!